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Hello everyone, thank you again for joining me on another episode of the Dorsey Us show.
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And the Dorsey Us show is sponsored by the Audery Audio Group, which inspires and uplifts through discussions, testimonies, and teachings, equipping listeners for meaningful conversations.
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On today's episode, we have George Cisneros who is a Christian missionary and he recounts his family's journey from the US to Guatemala, where they established a school that provided aid and adopted five children.
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George has his diverse experiences, including mountaineering, marathons, and Bible study, emphasizing his passion for helping others understand the Bible.
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Thank you so much for coming on the show today.
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Dorsey, it is my absolute pr pleasure.
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I've been looking forward to this.
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I'm excited to get into it.
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Definitely.
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So yes, I played in the World Series of Poker a few years back.
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It's been probably five years, but so they have a seniors, uh a seniors, I don't know what you call it, but a seniors group.
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So you had to be 50 years older or older to play in it.
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There were still thousands of people that entered and played in the World Series of Poker, the seniors division.
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And yeah, I placed in the money, which basically means I got my money back.
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But in my past, I used to just love to play poker.
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It was just something I love to do, and uh didn't get a chance to do it until a few years back.
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And I got to go back and spend a weekend playing.
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So it was a lot of fun.
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Okay.
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Nice.
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I'd like to open up with a couple of icebreaker questions.
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What's your favorite funny story to tell other people?
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Wow, I think a funny story for me.
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And first of all, I've been looking forward to your icebreaker questions because these are questions that I have no idea what's coming.
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And as I listened to some of your other episodes, I was wondering, what is he going to ask me?
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So that's a great question.
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I think one of the funny stories that I like to tell is when we got to Guatemala, my wife and I did not know Spanish.
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And I remember one day we're leaving the neighborhood and there was a small little store that sold uh snacks and water.
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And I parked the car, and my wife said she'd go in and buy the water.
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And so she went inside and she came outside of this little tienda and she said, they don't have any water.
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And I was like, What do you mean they don't have water?
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Because they all have water.
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So I said, uh let me go in.
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So I went inside, and of course they had water.
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I asked for water.
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Uh I bought some water.
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I came back outside.
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And I said, What did you tell them exactly?
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And so she had asked them incorrectly.
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She said, uh, tengo await, which is I have water.
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And I think they were just kind of looking at her like, okay, great, lady, like you have water.
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I don't know.
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So it was just funny.
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It was just uh uh a miscommunication, but it was funny.
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We still give her a hard time for that.
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That was that was 10 years ago.
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Right.
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What one of your biggest challenges in life?
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One of my biggest challenges in life.
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You know, so we are parents to nine kids, and we have four biological and we've adopted five.
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And I think that fatherhood, just being a parent, is probably one of the biggest challenges because they're just you're never really prepared for the next step.
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We've, like I said, we've got nine, our four adult children are in the United States.
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They grew up on the field, so three of them are married, one is engaged.
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And, you know, when they leave, you're not prepared for it.
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It leaves a hole in your heart that you don't even know is coming.
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I don't know why nobody really talks about it, but when your older kids leave the nest, it does lead a big hole.
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And uh they're off starting their own family.
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They're doing exactly what you raised them to do, um, but you miss them.
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And so I think probably raising kiss is probably the most difficult or the most challenging thing I've had.
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What is the backstory of you and your family going from the US to Guatemala?
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How did that happen?
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How did that take place?
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You know, I mean, I know, you know, in your bio because you picked up and you left, but there has to be some type of backstory to that.
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Or maybe there isn't, and you just decided one day, hey, I'm gonna go to, let's all go to Guatemala.
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Yeah, you know, that's such a good observation because I think a lot of people, when we said that we were gonna be moving to Guatemala, uh, a lot of people thought, well, that's such a random decision.
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Like, did you just pick up and leave?
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And so that's actually a great observation because there is a backstory.
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The backstory is that before we moved, I was in the basement watching my favorite football team, the Denver Broncos, and it was just me.
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I mean, I got another Bronco fan.
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I love it.
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Well, I was watching this particular game.
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I uh for whatever reason, and I think it's one of those things where you just remember the details of important times of your life.
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But I remember Jay Cutler was quarterback.
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I remember we lost that particular game, and I just turned the TV off and in the basement it was dark, and I just was kind of sitting there, and I really felt the presence of God asking me, Do you love me?
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And it was just weird because I generally don't have this conversation with God.
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Matter of fact, I've probably only had five conversations that I can recall that I really felt like it was the Holy Spirit talking to me.
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Do you love me?
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And I said, uh, yes, of course I love you.
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I I love you.
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And then I fell to him asking me, Do you love me more than you love your wife?
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And I didn't answer quickly because I thought about it.
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I see my wife every day.
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We wake up together, we have coffee together, we pray together, and spend more time with her than I spend with anyone else.
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And I just I said, you know, God, I think I love my wife more than I love you.
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And then he asked me, Do you love your kids more than you love me?
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And that was actually a bit easier to answer because I would die for my kids.
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If my kids today called and said, Dad, I need a heart transplant and I could give them my heart, I would do it.
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And so I said, God, I love my kids more than I love you.
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And that's very humbling.
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But then the next question was kind of funny, but not funny at all.
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And that was, do you love me more than you love the Denver Broncos?
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I kind of in my head, I wanted to say, yes, of course, I love you more than I love the Denver Broncos.
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But I thought about it.
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I took a second and I thought, I just spent three hours watching my favorite team play football on a Sunday.
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And I do every Sunday during football season.
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Sometimes I'll watch a Monday night football game.
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Sometimes I'll watch a doubleheader on Sunday, spend hours watching football, and I have never spent three hours alone with God.
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I'd never prayed for three hours straight.
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I had never read my Bible for three hours straight.
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I had never spent three hours in a row with this person, God, who I say I love.
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And so really made me wonder, you know, do I even love God?
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And so it was actually a year later, almost to the day, which is crazy, that I, so well, let me back up one step.
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So that night I talked to my wife, I told her about this conversation, and I told her, you know, I need to explore this.
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And I said, I'm gonna stop praying.
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And I made a decision, stop praying for my needs, for our businesses that we own, for our family, for things like that, for health or anything else.
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I stopped praying and I traded all of those prayers into one prayer, which was, I love you, or Lord, love you.
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I prayed that prayer for an entire year.
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Anytime I felt like praying for myself or for my business or for anything other than that, I just it was a trigger for me to remember to say, Lord, I love you.
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And that was my prayer for a year.
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So a year later, my church had a spot open up.
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They were going on a missions trip to Guatemala, somebody canceled and they said, Hey, if anybody wants to go, we have one spot open.
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I said, Yes, I want to go.
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It wasn't, you know, any kind of inspiration from the Holy Spirit or anything.
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I just felt like I wanted to go.
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And quite honestly, it was probably selfish.
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I probably just wanted to go and do that and feel good, maybe, or help someone and feel good about myself.
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And so I went on this trip.
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We were working at an orphanage for the week.
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And basically what that meant was we got to play with the kids and just love on those kids.
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But at the end of the week, there was a feeding center that we got to go be a part of where we fed a couple hundred kids from the inner city a hot lunch.
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And honestly, as a very poor, as I know now, living in Guatemala, uh, it was a very poor part of Guatemala City.
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And we fed these kids, but before the meal came out, the worship group, the worship team came up and they started playing.
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And I was at the back of the room, the back of this cafeteria, and I just remember being overwhelmed by 200 kids.
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They just jumped up out of their seats, they started praying and really just singing with all their hearts, thanking God, hands in the air.
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And I'm looking at them from the back of the room, recognizing what loving God really looks like.
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Like they were loving God.
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And it was on that day, December of 2000, I guess it would be 2011.
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I remember it was that day that I recognized, you know what, I love God too.
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I love God.
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And it was the first time, maybe in my entire life, that I realized I love God.
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So I get back home, I told my wife again about the trip and that experience of just feeling this deep love for God and really feeling like he was calling me to follow him, which meant he was calling our family to follow him.
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And so we made the decision that night, Dorsey, to sell everything we have and follow God to Guatemala and serve him there.
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We didn't even know how, we didn't know what, we didn't know anything about it, but we made the decision that night and seven months later.
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So we put our house on the market uh a month later.
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Seven months later, we were aboarding a plane to Guatemala City.
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And so that's the backstory.
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Now you are missionaries now to Guatemala.
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Do you have any type of organization that you or search that you work with when you're down there?
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So it's crazy.
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We actually don't.
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We had no idea.
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We felt called to Guatemala.
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We didn't feel prepared.
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We didn't feel prepared in all kinds of ways, but we did have something, and that was our obedience.
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So we said yes.
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We came here to help some other missionaries kind of uh do the work that they were doing.
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But as it turns out, that actually didn't come to fruition.
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Really, just spending time with the Lord and looking for his direction, which thank God he gave us.
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Um but no, we don't our church does support us.
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Um they've supported us for the last 13 years, the church that we were going to, but really they just support us financially with a little bit, which we're super grateful for, but we're not really under any kind of um umbrella.
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We are here independently, and which, as it turns out, we have really appreciated.
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And in the end, um, even though we went through a lot of growing pains and a lot of learning and and a lot of financial difficulties, in the end, it actually worked out for the best because we were able to follow the leading of the Holy Spirit and not be guided necessarily by you know uh uh a church that maybe has visu that we weren't kind of matched up with.
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So interestingly though, I wouldn't recommend that.
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I would recommend being sent.
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Um, but that was what we had to deal with, and it worked out incredibly well.
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Now you did say, and I was thinking my next question that your six does support you and support you financially, but when you went, I mean, before you went, did you go to your pastor and say, hey, I'm gonna take my family and I and we're gonna move to Guatemala and wouldn't be missionary, what was that discussion like?
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And what did your pastor say?
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Absolutely, yeah.
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We did.
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And weirdly, on that particular trip, this is crazy.
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On that trip, I think there were maybe 20 of us that went on that trip to Guatemala.
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And on that trip, three families came back feeling called to serve in Guatemala, which is just, it's never happened.
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It probably has never happened since.
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It never happened before.
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As a matter of fact, our church had only sent, not supported, but sent one other missionary onto the field.
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And it was a pretty big church.
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It was an assemblies of God, it is an assemblies of God church.
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They they support missions, so they financially support a lot of different missionaries, but they had only ever sent one missionary onto the field.
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And so they were kind of weren't sure what to do.
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So they did the best they could to kind of help these three families, uh, my family included, to prepare to go out onto the field.
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And of those three families, one family stayed for, I believe, one year and then they went back to the States.
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Uh, and then this other uh family, they have been on the field um for the same length that we have.
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So coming up on 13 years this year, they've been on the field as well.
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So they were encouraging.
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They, like I said, they supported us financially a little bit, and they continue to support us financially.
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But yeah, it's they I don't know honestly what they do now if they send more missionaries out, but that particular year, they sent three different families out onto the field.
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You mentioned in your introduction there that you adopted five kids.
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What was that experience like?
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Wow.
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So here's how that came about.
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We were serving in our ministry.
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We uh started a uh um Christian middle school for boys in a very small village.
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But while we were working, my older daughter, when she was like 15 years old, she started working and volunteering at an orphanage.
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And she got to really get to know some of these kids, and she would come home and tell us, you know, there are these two kids that are older.
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One of them was born deaf.
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And, you know, it just had a big heart for them.
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And so my wife also started on her free time.
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She would go in with my daughter to support my daughter uh and and volunteer at this at this orphanage.
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And as it turns out, it was those two kids that became eligible to be adopted.
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And in Guatemala, the way adoption works, you can't adopt, you can't go in and choose kids to adopt.
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But because these kids were older and because one of them had special needs, we could go in and say, you would like to adopt them if possible.
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So we went through the process.
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We already were permanent residents, which you have to be in Guatemala.
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You can't be a U.S.
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citizen and not a Guatemalan resident uh in adopt.
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So it's only available to citizens of Guatemala and to permanent residents, which we were.
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We went through the process of becoming eligible to adopt, and then we went through the process of adopting these two.
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During that process, Dorsey, two other siblings, biological siblings, were found in another orphanage.
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They were transferred to that orphanage.
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The director called my wife and I, and I can tell you exactly where we were when we got that call.
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And she said, We have found two other kids.
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There's biological siblings, and now they are all basically a package.
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Can't we cannot split them, can't split legally in Guatemala, you can't split siblings up.
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And so we uh were asked, you can adopt all four, or you can't adopt them.
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You know, listen, we didn't even think about it.
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We said yes, absolutely.
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We didn't we didn't know anything about these kids.
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We didn't know what kind of needs they had, we didn't know, and it didn't matter.
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We said yes, because we we knew that the two older ones would probably never be adopted.
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And now that there were four, it just would never ever happen.
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In Guatemala, adoptions are uh rare.
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There are millions of people in Guatemala, and there are only a couple of hundred adoptions every year.
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And so we just knew what their fate would be.
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So we said yes.
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We adopted those four, went through that whole process.
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And then three years later, we got another call from the director, and she said, We have found another one of their siblings that was born.
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She's a young girl.
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She was born uh through, you know, that process because she was only a couple years old, but she had been taken uh out of the home because of neglect and abuse.
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Would we be open?
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She said, Of course, you know, you're not obligated.
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We just wanted to ask you first, would you be open to adopting this little girl?
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And we immediately said yes, went through the process, and that's how we ended up adopting five.
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Oh well.
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Do they know if there's any more possibly out there?
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Any older siblings that are connected to the to these kids?
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Well, wow, you're you just are so aware because that's that's a great question.
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And I don't think anyone's ever really asked us that.
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But yes, there are other siblings.
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As it turns out, there was an older sibling who was placed, she was placed in an orphanage for special needs.
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And interestingly, she had a clear mind.
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She was completely normal, but she had some physical disformities.
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Is that a word?
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Yeah, the deformity is a word.
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Yeah.
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So she had some physical deformities that when they put her in the orphanage, they thought that she was special needs, but really she wasn't.
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She just had some physical deformities.
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And so she actually ended up being adopted by the director of that particular orphanage.
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Once the orphanage uh director of that orphanage recognized that she was a completely normal kid, you know, and that she didn't really belong in that particular orphanage, she adopted her.
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Praise the Lord.